Writing Through The Mess

  • Do you want to see God move impressively in your life?

    God has done real-life miracles in my life. If you are a regular reader of this blog, you know, I have seen God’s power with my own eyes and could tell story-upon-story of all the miracles I have seen God do for me and my family. (So many of them I’ve shared on this blog.) But

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  • What a doorman & a maniac taught me about a fiercely protective God

    He was wearing a snow suit on an 84 degree summer day, that was the first sign he wasn’t mentally sound. The second, was the eerily slow pace in which he walked. Come on, pee faster… my inner dialogue begged of my 65 lb boxer. Watching, out of the corner of my eye as the strange

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  • Whatever you’ve given up on, pick it back up & march on.

    I remember the first time I heard honest, unguarded words. Growing up as a pastor’s kid in a conservative Baptist church, I heard (a lot) of words over the course of my life. Lots of good, well-behaved, and in their ‘Sunday’s best’ kinds of words. But the first time I was on the receiving end of

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  • We started a church in NYC with $330 — An update: one year later

    Exactly one year ago, we stepped out to do what God had asked us to do, all while lacking – pretty much everything – we needed to do it. (Maybe you can relate.) “We’d like to start a business account for the church we’re starting in New York City,” we told the bank teller, one year

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  • If you feel like God is ignoring you, you’re probably right.

    I know, I know… God’s timing is perfect and He will give us the desires of our hearts. I’m both familiar with these truths and believe they hold true. But that being said, REALLLLLY, tho… God is ignoring me. …and the two pregnancy tests in my hand are proof.

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  • On forgiveness, hating yourself, and God’s most favored gift

    When my marriage fell apart and I found myself drowning in depression, I had 3 people to forgive for about a trillion unforgivable things, yet they weren’t the most difficult to forgive — It was everyone else, and me.  Everyone else, because of the stupid things they would say, and worse, the things they wouldn’t. Friends,

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  • In the face of everything that is threatening to tear you down — keep standing

    I’ve spent 29 years of my life asking God why I was put on this earth, and the last few, telling Him all the reasons why I couldn’t possibly do it. I’ve contemplated making a run from God’s call on my life, too many times to count. Much like all the times I hid in

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  • The one word that should scare you ( IF )

    There are two types of people in this world: those who believe there is greatness to be unlocked in them and that there is significant purpose as to why they have been put on this earth. And those, who don’t. Both, have had the same God who breathed the stars, breathe life into their lunges

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  • For: the person whose heart is breaking right now…

    Last week, I wrote a bold and unapologetic post to the man or woman who wants their perfectly restored marriage handed to them. And for the record, I stand by what I said, and I’m (still) not the least bit sorry about it. But today, oh weary one, these words of compassion are for you.

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  • JOIN US on Facebook Live tomorrow night!

    True Story: I loathe the sound of my voice and the way my nose looks on camera so I can’t believe we are really doing this, but… TOMORROW NIGHT (Tuesday, 6/27) at 8:30pm EST, my husband and I will be on Facebook Live, and we’d love for you to join us! We will be talking about

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