Writing Through The Mess

  • JOIN US on Facebook Live tomorrow night!

    True Story: I loathe the sound of my voice and the way my nose looks on camera so I can’t believe we are really doing this, but… TOMORROW NIGHT (Tuesday, 6/27) at 8:30pm EST, my husband and I will be on Facebook Live, and we’d love for you to join us! We will be talking about

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  • I’m sorry, but your perfectly restored marriage will never be handed to you.

    Those are the words I spoke to a woman, whose marriage was rapidly deteriorating. I watched as my words landed. Observing her eyes widen, and her mouth open as if to protest, but nothing came out. She looked shell-shocked at my brashness. Confused, how a woman like myself, that is such proof of God’s miraculous

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  • You don’t have to run from your feelings in the name of faith, anymore.

    Last week, I found myself gasping for breath as I wept. Deep and heavy and messy mourning, like something died. Like something died a long time ago, but I didn’t grieve… Like, I never allowed myself to grieve.  Never, in a million years, did I expect the tears to come. I’m alright, I thought. I

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  • What my daughter taught me about a jealous God

    I’m not going to lie, God (often) has to put me in my place. And none more harsh than when it comes to my daughter. …My 5 year-old ninja-turtle-loving daughter. When it comes to my child, I have felt God’s correction most severe. His words to me almost cutting, even reprimanding at times. And what I’ve

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  • The one thing that will bring you to your knees about God

    There’s this trait that will one day bring you to your knees about God. I know, because it happened to me this week… There on my knees, I found myself, tears streaming from my eyes. Partly in shock, but more than anything, unashamedly grateful. …Grateful, for a God who goes before me.

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  • The only thing I am certain of (and it’s not a whole lot)

    I’m going to let you in on a little secret: I have no idea what my life will look like a week from now… a month from now… heck, don’t get me started on a year from now! Even still, I mean it when I say this, never in my life have I ever been

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  • You’re NOT what you are hearing

    Your life is wrong. You’re all alone… a reject. You, are useless. Those are the words I’ve been hearing over these last few weeks. Oftentimes so clear, it nearly stops me in my tracks. To be honest, it’s why I haven’t written these past couple weeks. (Sigh* I’m sorry about that, friends.) But I’ve made the decision

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  • What has you acting so desperate?

    I don’t know about you, but I’ve had THE WORST attitude for the last 7+ days. Just ask my husband. I don’t know if it was the 31 days I spent alone with a puppy and a preschooler, or the move we just made to New York City, or the fact that we are currently living

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  • You’re going to say thanks for the suffering

    We’re moving to NYC this weekend. And as I was packing, I was reminded of one of the most profound memories I have while living in South Carolina — the day God told me, that one day, I was going to thank Him for my suffering. (And He was right.) You’re going to thank Him

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  • On the Day Before Your Deliverance

    Confession: This week I almost gave up – literally, the day before – God was about to provide exactly what I’ve been so desperately praying for. I’ve probably written about a million different things that I’ve needed God to do on this blog, but this week we desperately needed God to give us a New York

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